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From our newest contributor, Amy Caputa.  Welcome, Amy!

Eating on the Run is so 2009…

I had every intention of writing an informative article on what to eat on the run, knowing that every parent lives an unbelievably busy life that doesn’t always allow time for sit-down meals. However…I just finished reading “Food Rules: An Eater’s Manual,” by Michael Pollan (author of “The Omnivore’s Dilemma”), and, first of all, I’m annoyed that he wrote the book that I was planning to write(!), but more importantly, I’m glad that it has been written.  The book contains 64 straight-forward rules about what and how to eat.  The rule that threw a wrench in my original article idea is Rule #58: “Do all your eating at a table.”  Now, since I wholeheartedly support the majority of the rules in the book, including #58, I wouldn’t be true to myself–and I’d be doing a disservice to you—if I wrote an article about what to eat on the run. One certainly cannot be on the run while sitting at a table, right?  Frankly, I’m a little tired of this wired, super-connected, 24/7 race to nowhere that we’re all in and I don’t want to propagate suggestions for staying in a race that seems to put family life in second place.  Life is too short. Balance is critical.

Changing our eating habits isn’t easy and won’t happen overnight, especially when fast and convenient foods (or, “edible foodlike substances,” as Pollan calls processed food) can be found on every corner.  But, if we put in a little extra time and effort our families will be happier and healthier in the long run.  Here are a few ideas for preparing dinners (that could also be eaten as leftovers for lunch the next day):

  • Spend a few hours on Sunday cooking and freezing meals for the rest of the week.
  • If your kids are old enough to help in the kitchen, recruit them as sous chefs. Dinner will be prepared in half the time and you’ll have a blast together in the kitchen.
  • Start a casserole club and exchange meals with a few other families on a weekly basis.
  • Make the small investment in a crock pot and toss the ingredients for a hearty stew in the pot in the morning and come home to a hot, wholesome dinner in the evening.

These are just four of a multitude of ways to provide home-cooked meals for your family and then still have the time to sit down at your dining room table and eat the meal together.  The meals will take some planning for sure, but your family is worth it! Research shows that eating meals as a family is beneficial for children and parents alike.  When else between school, work, soccer, yoga, etc., can you talk one-on-one with each other?  Your kids really do want to talk with you about things–important things like homework, bullies, or boyfriends/girlfriends, or trivial things like American Idol, the Jonas Brothers, or their latest Wii victory–and I’m sure you want to hear what they have to say, regardless of what subject they’re talking about.

A frightening side-effect of our desire to eat on the run is childhood obesity. By now you’ve heard that childhood obesity is on the rise and with that diabetes, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, and the risk of early stroke and heart disease.  First Lady Michelle Obama has recently stated that childhood obesity “truly is a crisis” and she’s launching an initiative to fight it. Help take part in that fight in your own home by preparing your family healthy meals and then eating them together.  Show your children what healthy food is, how to prepare it, and how to enjoy eating it. None of us want to outlive our children.

Let’s take a cue from the Europeans and those in the slow food movement who make a point of enjoying leisurely meals: eat well, eat slowly, have a glass of red wine, enjoy the food and, above all, your company.

If you want to learn more about the slow food movement check out these websites:

http://www.slowfoodboston.com/

http://www.oldwayspt.org/

And if you want to check out some amazing vegetarian recipes, visit one of my favorite sites:

http://www.101cookbooks.com

Amy Caputa

Amy was born and raised on the shoreline in Branford, Connecticut. She relocated to Massachusetts in February 2004 to be with her fiancé, Peter Caputa IV.  After working for many years as a project manager at a scholarly publishing company, Amy had a desire to change careers and began looking for a way to turn her passion for health and wellness into her life’s work. Fortunately, she found the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, affiliated with Columbia University, in New York City, and graduated from the Institute in June 2007 as a Holistic Heath Counselor. In September 2007, Peter Caputa V (yes, the fifth) was born–in the good old-fashioned drugless way–thanks to Jeanette and her Natural Childbirth class at MoCo! Amy left her position at the publishing company in August 2009 to become a stay-at-home mom and build her health counseling practice.  She is excited to share with people how to be healthier and happier by nourishing their bodies and minds with wholesome food and plenty of self care. She is currently accepting clients and can be reached at amy.caputa@gmail.com. She can also be found posting wellness tweets on Twitter as “purewellnessamy.”

My article was published (a while ago now) but I just found it online!  Mothers & Company is happy to provide local families with doula referrals, just ask!

Every Woman Deserves a Doula article

Happy Holidays!

It’s the holidays (Happy Holidays, by the way…Merry Christmas, Happy Kwanzaa, Happy Channukah and Happy Festivus) and  the end of the year and the end of the decade.  It’s almost TWENTY-TEN!  Wow!  Remember when we were partying like it was 1999?  And when we were worried about Y2K?  All that is over and we’ve moved into the future.

I’m up late listening to the rain (yes, I said rain) outside…at 1:38 am.  I love this time of night.  Everyone is asleep, it’s relaxing time for me.  I’m always being reminded to take time for myself and this is one of those times.  Late night.  Some people (Kate and Alexis!) like to get up super-early for Adventure Boot Camp, but me, I like to stay up late.  It’s like back when my kids were babies and they wanted me to be awake with them in the early hours of the morning.

Anyway, back to the holidays.  Whatever you celebrate, it’s a time of reflection and renewal.  Resolutions.  Family time.  Eating.  Cookies.  Can’t forget about the cookies.  It’s been nice to have some time focused on my kids and I’m looking forward to more of that (since Mothers & Company is closed until January 4th).  Maybe the Children’s Museum in Boston, maybe some sledding (if this rain would turn to snow!), maybe walking the dogs…and of course, sleeping late and staying in our pajamas is always a great way to hang out as a family.  Whatever we decide to do, I’m trying to focus on being “in the moment” with them.  It’s so easy to be busy but harder to value every second.  Today’s the anniversary of the horrible tsunami that took place five years ago where more than 250,000 people lost their lives.  Makes ya think: enjoy every moment.  Tell them you love them.  Hug.  And hug some more.  And don’t forget to tickle.  Gotta love the tickles.

Resolve to be in the moment in 2010.  With your family.  With your friends.  With your Self.  And remind me to do the same if you see me not doing that…thanks.

Happy Holidays  *  Happy Holidays  *  Happy Holidays  *  Happy Holidays

You’re Invited…

Mothers & Company’s
Holiday Brunch
& Shopping Bazaar

YOU’RE INVITED
Saturday, December 19th
Holiday Brunch 10am – 2pm
Gift Bazaar    1pm – 4pm

Brunch  Brrr…it’s cold outside!  Come over and enjoy a warm drink and yummy brunch foods…see old friends, meet new friends, shop, relax and just enjoy the day in a comfy place made just for YOU!  We’ve changed things around and added more great stuff since the last time you were there, so come by and check it out!

During the party, you can also learn more about our groups and classes and then register for 2010.  Don’t forget to do some last-minute holiday shopping for the parents, babies and kids in your life, too!  Our shop will stay open until 5pm and the rest of our Melissa & Doug toys and puzzles are 40% off and we have a bunch more items.

Bazaar   We’ll have our “house” full of local gift vendors.  It’s a great opportunity to shop for those last minute gifts for your loved ones.  Most will have cash and carry items (and if they don’t have enough stock, they have promised to get the products to you or your loved ones in time for Christmas). One vendor will be in the Shop, and the others will be in our Pink and Green Rooms down the hall from the Shop…

Who will be there with their wares?
Flexible Creations Handmade sterling silver crystal and cubic zirconia jewelry
Robay Studio  A fun collection of handmade items for home, mother and baby
Mrs. G’s Fabulous Marshmallows   Hot chocolate and gourmet marshmallows
Passion Parties  Due to a quiet (but strong) request from several mommas…someone will be conveniently located behind the closed door of our small Meeting Room for your private shopping:  find a few things to spice up your prenatal and postpartum romance! (babies and adults welcome, no toddlers allowed)
Munkin Arts  Handmade glass pieces
Dr. Felt Good  Fun goods made from felt
The Covered Bottom  Unique& whimsical baby items for the little ones in your life made with retro fabrics
Alizabeth O. Designs   Fresh & feminine.  Subtly bold, fun and flirty jewelry
Designs by Sandra D Handmade jewelry
JNL Minerals  Handmade jewelry

and Longaberger Baskets, too!
WE NEED YOUR HELP!  This year we again ask you to bring something for the Worcester County Food Bank.  Did you know that some of the hardest hit families this year are those with young children?  If you can help by bringing a bag (big or small) of non-perishable (but healthy) foods for those who are in need of food this holiday season.  We’ll take care of bringing it to the food bank before the holidays are over.

Meghan’s Hope

One of our co-founders, Kim Packard, lost her baby girl 5 years ago (December 18) because her dresser fell on her in the early hours of the morning.  Every other piece of furniture was attached to the walls in Kim’s home, but this dresser (which was so heavy it took too strong adults to move it) still fell on Meghan.  Read what you can do to be sure that this doesn’t happen to your children or any others (let babysitters, grandparents, neighbors and everyone know about this).  TVs also kill and injure kids every year (especially the flat-screens!).  So, attach your TVs and your dressers and your armoirs and your shelves….Quake Hold is a great brand, and KidCo has some good straps, too!

Thanks, Kim, for sharing your life and wisdom with us!  We’ll always remember Meggie!

http://www.meghanshope.org

Check this out…breastfeeding from a dad’s perspective…would probably be valid for 2-mom families, too.  Thanks to Stephanie of Sweet Little Bundles Birth Services for the link!

The Man-Nurse Diaries: Dads Prefer Breastfeeding.

Here are some great photos of our new space, thanks to Suzanne Laroque at Sleaque Images.

How to Tie a Moby Wrap

Have you been wondering how to tie a Moby Wrap?  You’re welcome to come into Mothers & Company and we’ll help you wrap it on yourself (even better, bring your baby and we’ll make sure you feel pretty comfortable before you leave with one and practice at home).

How to Tie a Moby Wrap

Ladies, keep an eye on him, too.  You just never know.  The birth of a baby can be such an amazingly overwhelming event in your lives, see care for each other.

Postpartum Depression Strikes Fathers, Too.

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